Monday, August 23, 2010

Please HELP girl problems!!! need advice!!?

ok so theres this girl ive been hooking up with for a few weeks now and she tells me she really really likes me the first week and then a couple days ago she told me she loved me and she wanted to break up with her bf for me. she broke up with him. and she says she loves me. but her EX-bestfriend(they hate eachother) keeps IMing me and saying all this **** about the girl i like, she says stuff like. oh you know she jsut hooks up with guys ALL the time? she gets a new bf every couple weeks, shes jsut using you!! she says stuff like that about her and she tells me all these random stories. and then igot kinda wierded out so i told the girl and she started crying and stuff and saying how its all bullshit and that girl is jsut talking **** cuzz they got int oa huge fight and hate eachother. so idk what to belive?!?! i think i love this girl! but i mean osme of the info sounded legit idk why it jsut sounded like how could that girl make that stuff up?? idk what to do, anyone have any situations similar?? what should i do? should i give this girl a chance and risk getting hurt? or jsut forget about this girl?? yes she did cheat on her bf with me...but shes liked me for a long long time even before they went out i just moved away for awhile and recently came back to california.Please HELP girl problems!!! need advice!!?
if you don't give her a chance you'll always wonder if it couldv'e been true. i'd say go for it, give her a try you'll be hurt if you break up with her anyway, you might as well.Please HELP girl problems!!! need advice!!?
Okay I've been in this before. Girls do lie about their friends if they are mad at them. All they want is revenge. They will do anything to make the other girl mad and upset. The girls Ex-bestfriend is probably lying. Girls don't say they love you just to say it. If she dumped her boyfriend for you then she probably really likes you. If you love this girl then trust her. Shes probably not lying.
it all really depends on how well you like the girl... you like her that much that you would be willing to get hurt and go through all that drama? if yes... then sure...give her a chance. but, do you really want that? if i were in that situation, i would try to get out.
Okay i think u should believe the person ur with because if u really believe these things then ur just gna end up hurting the girl ur with right now. see when u said her ex best friend girls that dont like each other can make things up like crazy its all girl problems i have had girl problems to but there all crazy and they make up alot of things believe the girl ur with
if she cheated on her bf for you then how do u no she wont do it again


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The other girl is probably just jealous that you like the other one and not her. Good Luck you will make the right decision.
you should probably watch her behavior around other guys...if she acts slut-ish then u know the ex friend is right...be careful with her though because she did cheat so dont be shocked if she does on u
Go for it.. You cant believe everything ppl tell u
mmmm... if you've only been hooking up with her, is there really anything to the relationship,besides sex? and dont listen to her ';ex-bestfriend'; because you dont know how reliable any of the shitt she says is. and maybe you should take to this girl, and see if she is truthfull with you about anything. and also, you might as well give it a shot, because whats life without love, and you can never love without the risk of getting hurt. but you dont know if she could cheat on you with some other guy, so, maybe you shoud just be careful, and just gradually go into a relationship :)
well i would say that no matter what u do u will get hurt...think about it...if u love her and ignore her u will b hurting inside but if u lover her and date her and she cheats on u then u will be hurt..so no matter what u will be hurt....





and its her ex bestfriend so u know that they are not friends anymore so she might be talking **** but they were friends so that she also knows a little bit more about her than other people do...so u cant trust her because u dont know the truth to her side





so i would say go for it because no matter what there is a loss unless she never cheats on u
no!!


believe the girl you love!!


pleeeasee dont hurt her like that! when two girls hate eachother they talk about eachother like that! its alll nonsense, just believe the poor girl who loves you yall swound like yall wou;d make a good couple and if you didnt go out with her, who would she have left? she already dumped her boyfriend, lost her bestfriend, she needs you.


sorry, its a lot of info, i've been in something juuust like this,


help her.
I understand how it is to really, really, really like (or love) a girl whom you've known for a while. That being said, this situation doesn't sound very promising for anyone. First of all, I don't think her ex-besty is doing you or the girl you like any favors. Consider this...She's the EX-bestfriend (as you dubiously pointed out). So, while some of her information might be true and some might be false, it's all GOSSIP and should be avoided when pursuing the girl you like. If you want information, just be straight up with her and ask her. Secondly, the girl you like doesn't sound very stable in making good choices concern in love, dating etc. in the past. Although you may feel strongly about her, I'd suggest you be cautious about who you are including in your love life. Most of all, just be honest with all concerned about your feelings and your doubts. It's better to deal with ad face than hide or just shrug off. I hope you find this helpful. Good luck with the new girlfriend.
I loved a guy once more than everything... he ended up killing himself because everyone wanted to tear us apart. They made him feel awful for falling in love with me. I was 16 he was 24. I lied about my age....people just lie sometimes, not to hurt anyone. She probably does love you...but you have to decide if you can handle the rejection you will face from others. They are just jealous of her...is she pretty? pretty than the other girl? If you love her... see where it goes...
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