Thursday, August 19, 2010

Innocent girl seeks relationship advice?

Ok. I'm now currently going out with a fabulous guy named Matt. He's amazing and makes me feels so comfortable and good about myself. Anyway, in school I'm viewed as innocent and a prude which I don't mind. I don't really like to talk about sexual stuff or do anything sexual for that matter. Often times I'll be walking with him around our school stage and the other day people just stared at us thinking that we did something =( I'm not like that at all and now he's starting to think I'm getting embrassed of him. What do I do?





Thanks so much for your time =)Innocent girl seeks relationship advice?
Don't let it bother you, people just don't have anything better to do them make up lies about others. People do it about my gf and I too.Innocent girl seeks relationship advice?
talk to each other and what he is thinking, good relationship has to have communication, plus you cannot stop gossip gossip comes and goes(hopefull0)
If you tell people that you take your relationship seriously and that you find it disrespectful to you when they make fun of your relationship; you will soon find out who your friends and your acquaintances are.





You can tell him how you feel and make it clear that you are a private person and that you are not embarrassed by him. It should be very easy to let him know how you feel about those things.
Talk to each other. This relationship is between the two of you and what other people think should not play a role in how you choose to be with each other.





As long as the two of you are open with each other about your feelings and you both communicate with each other you can have a robust relationship.





Sometimes when something is bothering us we need to tell our partner what that something is even if they can not help up with that problem. The reason for this is be sure that they know that it is not something that they did or are doing which is causing us to struggle or withdraw from them. It is very easy to blame ourselves for changes in a partners behavior when we do not know what inspired the change in behavior.





So this is why we need to let our partners know why our behavior toward them has changed or will soon change.





Talk to Matt and be honest and open with him and make sure that he will commit to giving you the same respect.
Sweetie you can't stop people from gossiping, they are just jealous that you have a boyfriend. Just don't do anything that gives them reason to think something is going on.


Have a talk with your mom about this ok. If you don't feel comfortable talking with her talk to your school nurse or guidence counselor.

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