PLEASE HELP!!!!! GIRL PROBLEMS. NEED ADVICE BADLY?

Ok, where to start....





My girlfriend and i have been dating for over a year, and within the past 2 months things began to fall apart. we were constantly arguing with each other about little dumb things and just slowly started drifting apart. a few weeks ago we decided to take a break..... only that made things worse between us. the arguing worsened and now we constantly argue... but its my fault we do. you see, i gust graduated high school just this year and she is a senior there. im pretty much ready to just settle down and start my life, and all she wants to do is hang out with her friends and party and get trashed all the time and tells me its because she just wants to have fun. I constantly worry about her and what shes doing. shes always hanging out with this guy who she swears up and down are just friends. yesterday his mom took the two of them to see cirque du solei and i got mad at her because she didnt talk to me at all. lately she hasnt text or called me and she always blows me off to hang out with her friends. i didnt used to be, but now ive become one of those extremely jealous types and it drives me nuts. she says were on a break, but when were together we do everything the same.... EVERYTHING. she still acts like my girlfriend and stuff. but last night i gont mad because she didnt tell me when she got home and we blew up at each other and argued for 2 hours on the phone. i suggested that maybe we just call it quits completely and i just let her move on with her life. she tells me she still loves me, but just wants time to do whatever she wants with no strings attatched and that she would still like to get back together with me one day (this is much more than i really expected to type, haha). last night i came to the conclusion that we should just remain best friends and just try to start everything over, but at a slow pace. just be friends for a while, but not for us to show our affection to each other outside of the usual hugging. she agreed that maybe we should try that. she is just tired of my attitude and wish i wouldnt worry about her so much, but its hard not to when you really care about someone. so at the moment were trying to clear everything up and start fresh. we kinda rushed into our relationship in last year. we were friends, but things happened too fast and i realize that now. we hung out for about 2 weeks before we got together and had sex within the first week or so. so im wondering if things happened too soon too quickly. im wondering if i should just try to start over and just be friends with her and start over from scratch and just slowly try to re-light an old flame that has burned out. we still love each other very much, but she is tired of me constantly yelling and one day everything is perfect between us, then the next day, thoughts begin to race through my mind and i become angry and paranoid and yell at her. i really need help with this. what should i do to change my ways, and what should i do to get her back. i want to do it slowly, so it doesnt blow up in my face again. please help?PLEASE HELP!!!!! GIRL PROBLEMS. NEED ADVICE BADLY?
you should try to recreate what brought you guys together. it shows you still care and remember that she is the one you want. start by explaining that nothing good ever comes easy and you only want her even if you said some things you didn't mean... tell her that she is the reason you wake up every morning and without her you cant see yourself going on. i know it sounds desperate but if you love her it is worth it. write a letter telling her how you feel how much you still love her be sure to put ion thoughts about why you should be together( memories of the good times you had). and mail it to her but don't put your address on it just hers. be sure to tell me how it goes. hope i helpedPLEASE HELP!!!!! GIRL PROBLEMS. NEED ADVICE BADLY?
take like litlle vaca to relax your mind.
very very long story





stop being on her back all the time, stop worrying so badly





if u have issues with her guy friend get a friend girl.. and just do the same things.. duh..





you give her too much importance thats your problem..
so sorry to be blunt but but i think the relationship is deader than a fly in a snoring grandma's room!!!


then again i could be wrong! try that idea you have. if it doesn't work, there's this technique that you pretend to be the other person. i think its stupid but people say it works. and if THAT doesnt work. look for someone else.