Sunday, August 22, 2010

GUYS! imma girl who needs advice, Will this be awkward?

a guy i like flirts with me alot but he has a gf. His gf is sorta immature. He calls me all the time, he went to teh beach with me, he bought me a patch at the beach(when i had money and he knew it) , he asked if he could come over and he said he wanted to hear my songs (i play guitar and sing).... he sits really close to me when were sitting together. hes giving ALL the hints. When he comes over i think i should just say this:


';can i ask you something? do you liek me?';


just straight out... if he says no, i'm going to just say somethign like ';oh, okay. it jsut seemed liek u were acting that way.';





if he says yes im going to tell him i have feelings for him too and bring up his gf.





i jsut want to knw if its going to be really awkward. i know u cant realy avoid it being awkward in this kind of situation, but will it be..like.. bad?





thnx :)GUYS! imma girl who needs advice, Will this be awkward?
It's a perfectly okay thing to do. Just make sure when you ask if he likes you, you don't sound like you don't want him to. Sometimes, when guys hear that question, they think girls are going to want to hear ';no, i don't like you';, because their feelings could be troublesome for the girl. A better way to ask it is (looking into his eyes, unless it's TOO awkward) ';Hey, how do you feel about me?';





And on a side note, if he tries to kiss you, definitely don't if you're friends with the girl. If you're not, it's up to you, although, from personal experience, more often than not, kissing would happen here.GUYS! imma girl who needs advice, Will this be awkward?
not really akward
well it might be awkward, but you have to know how he feels. don't do anything while he has a gf.

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