Monday, August 23, 2010

Girl trouble. need advice..?

i just wanted to add some details to my last post.








me and my girl of 2 yrs recently got in a fight and she wants to be single now. the other day she video chatted me. ( we go to diff schools) and said how cute i was and how much she missed and that she loved me. but today she was completly rude to me and barely talked to me. and now shes saying that she doesnt want to talk at all and all this random stuff. i mean i dont get her. why would she tell me she loves me and now doesnt want to talk at all. she said she wants to be single but if we didnt get in that fight then she would of never wanted this. shes always been a really good girlfriend and shes never said anything liek this before so its very random for me











oh yeah and our monthly anniversity s coming up soon and so is her b day. should i get her anything? and she says that she isnt doing this to talk to other guys and that there isnt anyone she would consider liking at her school. Girl trouble. need advice..?
some girls are confusing, but there is always a motive





that you go to dif schools means you wont be able to figure out her motive as easily





it was probably something that happened at her school.





if her mood/personality changes randomly its because that day something at school put her in a bad/good mood, probably.





she considers you someone to open up to and may take out some feelings on you





long distance relationships are hard. let this one go and get something in your area!Girl trouble. need advice..?
well..im not really very experienced with this stuff and all girls are different but if it were me and i had been dating someone for 2 years then when i got back to school if there was someone i thought i might like id break it off before i got torn between two (emotional cheating)








she probably realized there wasnt anyone she could like more than you and video chatted you to tell you how she felt hoping you would feel the same.....maybe she felt like you rejected her and you dont want her back so she went into suck and wallow mode.....lol it happens sometimes








just tell her how you feel about her and how much you regret that fight like you mentioned and im sure shell be back.....





as for anniversary and b-day....month anniversaries are stupid lol especially if youve been going out for over a year. bday...idk i hate getting gifts from boyfriends because im one of those people where if you give me something i HAVE to do something in return or ill feel bad about it but i know thats not normal so idk what to do about that lol








sorry i cant be of more help =/





good luck
You mean anniversary?


I don't know. That sounds really weird. Instead of video chatting with her, why don't you meet her face to face at a cafe or something and ask her what is going on.
It sounds like she might be confused - and even that she might, in fact, like someone else, but isn't ready to admit it.





Regardless if she likes someone else or not, she still likes you - but she's not treating you well, and she's not certain. So don't throw yourself at her. If I were you I wouldn't get her anything for the anniversary, and see how things go re her birthday. Maybe just get her a card for her birthday. But absolutely don't throw yourself at her - if you do and she's unsure about you, this will probably put her off you.





If she's going to come back to you, she will.





Good luck!



Three Letters PMS..sorry but it's probably true. She might want to see what you are willing to do to keep her. She must be a little unsure of your feelings for her. Get her a gift..we like that. And remember her b-day..do something really cool for i!!


Good Luck
P.M.S lol jk





um yeah, get her something, definitely. if she's mad at you now chances are she won't be if she knows you remembered 2 things like that. girls seem to like being remembered.

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