I wrote in a past question about this same girl. We used to be very close, we went away to college and broke away. Seven years have passed and recently we both ended relationships and since then we have been talking again. I have been madly in love with her since I first met her. I have been pushing a relationship between us recently but thats not what she wants right now. I know she wants what I want. She has the same feelings. I made some mistakes with her and im paying for them now. I have decided to not ask her out anymore and start showing her, by my actions that I can change and show her that we can be as great of friends as we use to be. Its wierd bc today when I went over to her house I got butterflies in my stomach and I never get butterflies,I mean its been years and I have visited her house a billion times. I just hope that I am doing the right thing by chilling out and giving her some time and maybe she will realize that we do belong to each other.Need advice for the girl of my dreams? Which is also my best friend.?
I think you are doing exactly the right thing.
Give her that space, be there but don't pressure her. Show her what a good man you are (she already knows, I am sure, but she'll see the effort you are putting forth for her).
Let her get a breath, give her a chance to miss that kind of attention from you.
I have a feeling dhe'll see how lucky she is to have you.
Good luck to you both.
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