Saturday, July 31, 2010

Girl issue! Any advice?

Ok I'm in middle school and there is this girl I've liked since like the fifth grade! Her name is Channing (although names are relatively unimportant) and she doesn't go to my school but one in the same district as me. I've told her that I like her before. I can't get her out of my head even though I'm about 99.99999% sure she doesn't like me back (but she puts it in a nice way). Any advice on either ways to get her or to completely get my feelings for her out?





P.S. She wants to be just friends





P.P.S. Every time I try to get over her (which I've tried alot so saying it will take time probably won't work) I end up liking her even more.Girl issue! Any advice?
Aww, I'm really sorry. I understand how you feel. When a guy I really like doesn't like me back, I just try to forget about them, and just focus on someone else that I'm attracted to. Also, focusing more on school work helps you forget a heartbreak. Once again I'm really sorry, and I hope things get better for you soon! :]Girl issue! Any advice?
First of all your in middle school. If she only likes you as a friend you should respent her wishes. If you keep trying push in trying to make her your girlfriend. One day she will tell you staight up to leave her alone for good. Your still young and if you truly care for her. You will be friends and be happy for her down the road. Good luck. I'm sure when she gets a little older her feelings may change. Don't get your hopes up. I'm just saying they may
I dnt want to say this but..once a guy is stuck in the fren zone sumtimes there is no way away..there is no point in you tellin this girl how u feel when she already stated she wants to be frens with you...jus be frens with her an be a gud fren..dnt show that much interest in her either an maybe the table will turn..she will be the one likin you
maybe you should chill out for it a little while.


i mean try being friends with her first.


THEN have her fall for you


once you're comftorable around her then you should try to flirt...


but dont make it obvious because it might freak her out.


but if you ant to work for it...i bet one day she will like you...


but try out other possibilities..


talk to other people


:]


see how that works
i felt the same way but i then a new guy came and i kinda had a crush on him but then i found out what a jerk he is i got over tha crush pretty quick. not sure bout the advice but


GOOD LUCK with getting over her or getting her!
Aw, hon. This is one of those times when you need to let it go, if she doesn't like you, she doesn't like you... it's a hard fact of life. Someone will come along though.
Stop going after her!! all girls like it when boys chase them!! She'll keep playing with you if you keep chasing her!!! she'll sooner or later chase after YOU! Just give her time talk to her but dont be sooo clingy!
likesomeone else.. she doesnt like you
you are not getting her
These are the steps to do to try to get over her: hope it helps...





1. Stop adoring her





If you continue on adoring her, paying close attention to the memories she has left behind like her pictures, things will just be worst.





What matters most is that you should learn to understand that it is over between the two of you and your life must go on without her.





The point here is that there is no sense in giving all the attention that she used to deserve. It is different now, and by giving her the same adoration that you used to give her would only mean trouble.





2. Close contact





In order to break away from her realm, it is best to eliminate any ways of contacting her. Do not call her, get rid of her number. There is no point in calling her just to ask how she is doing. You will just appear like an old dog who begs helplessly for milk.





The best thing to do is to close any means of contact like emails, phone calls, snail mails, and even text messages through her cell phone.





3. Pour out what you feel





The problem with most guys is that they are so constrained on what they feel that they are limited to how they can pour out their feelings. In turn, the feelings linger on and continue to thrive inside and cause further heartaches.





Drink if you must with your buddies just to get rid of that bitterness. Once you were able to get rid of it emotionally, chances are, it would be easier for you to get rid of it totally.





4. Try to avoid everything that has something to do with her





If it means not to eat on the same restaurant that you both used to hang out r avoiding her friends, then, do it. The only way to get over a girl is to forget everything about her. If not, you will just keep on reminiscing endlessly on how you two were before and how she used to say she loves you.





5. Never try to get what you have given here





It is a childish act. Besides, you will only have more reasons to remember her if you will see those things that you have meticulously saved for just to give it to her.





6. Have fun with your friends!





It is not the end of the world. If you are hurt with what happened, just consider it as a lesson well learned. What is important is that you still have your friends to empathize with you.

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