Thursday, July 29, 2010

Girl problem need advice?

so i was going out with this girl for about 2 years. We talked every day, saw each other all the time, and she was my everything and i thought that she felt the same way about me. Well the week before out a 2 year anniversary we were supposed to chill but she didn't answer her phone that whole day, so i said screw it and decide i wasn't gonna call her until she called me. Well for 3 days she never called me so i decided to go to her house and she said that she didn't want to be with me anymore, which was a total surprise to me considering 4 days before that we were having sex and talking about how in love we were. After she told me this we weren't together but still had sex multiple times, but she always insisted we weren't together, my main problem is that she never gave me a Straight answer to why she didn't want to be with me and was just acting plain shady, i have a lot of regret for being with her that long and it just pisses me off from time to time. what do you guys think it was that made her want to leave me ????Girl problem need advice?
well the sex was obviously good cause she still fucks u, so thats not the problem. just forget about her, find urself another younger, prettier, nicer girl. and treat her like a queen. u can still have sex with her, and it will make her think u cheated on her as u r on this new girl, it will drive her nuts! but just forget about her, dont chase her or follow her, shes obviously a skank so u will get hurt if u want something more than just sexGirl problem need advice?
she could have wanted someone else or she could have just been making u think that she was in love with u to just have sex with u and be loved by u as much as she wanted to.


so now that she is done with u she's gonna have sex with u but she considers u guys not being together cause that's the way she sees it.


and sit down with her and ask her to give u a straight answer to y she left u.


if she doesnt leave her alone anyways cause she's just using u.
i really can't give you a straight answer as to why she would do this, even though i'm a girl myself i don't understand what she's doing. did she lose interest? was she seeing another guy? is she interested in another guy? are things going to be changing for you two, like is somebody moving away for college or something like that? there are a lot of different scenario's as to why she would suddenly be so rude. i think you should just pressure her until you get a straight answer.
Sooner or later, most young women get tired of being a sex partner when there's no progress toward marriage. She gave you fair warning, but you didn't understand that. She even kept up the sex for a while, hoping you'd see what you'd be missing and get the picture. Still nothing.





So she has given up on you.
maybe she thought that she wasn't ready, and she could have much more of a great experience with another man. I am not saying that you are a bad boyfriend, I'm saying that she just wants... something else.





and the fact she's having sex with you is probably because she's un sure whether to leave you or not- :/
I have absolutely no idea, sorry man. We don't really know anything about her side of the story or what went on before the break up... She may be afraid of where her future is going, but who knows. It could be something as simple (and utterly horrible) as she got bored :/ Girls can be complete idiots, I'm sorry.
it could be anything but most likely she might have heard that you cheated on her or that you didn't love her back or something else bad from a trusted friend cause no girl would randomly say to her bf that we are not together...


help me please:


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dude that sucks total @$$, um she just prolly started seeing some one else, so um id just go to her place and be like B*tch tell me wat the hell is wrong with me, and she might tell u, but other wise, maybe she is goin through something emotionaly and is screwed up
a lot of girls are like this


she may have never really wanted you to begin with...afraid of commitment the way a lot of guys are... lost the attraction..or most likely, another guy came into her life or became available (one she had been waiting for)
FIRST OFF YU NEED 2 ASK HER. TELL HER TO GIVE YU A STRAIGHT ANSWER. BUT DO IT B4 YALL HAVE SEX. IF SHE DONT GIVE YU AN ANSWER PUT YO CLOTHES ON 'N' TELL HER DAT UNTIL SHE TELL YU YU WONT BE HAVING SEX WIT HER!!!.....DUH N YU STUPID FOR LETTIN IS GO ON CUZ REALLY SHE ONLY USIN YU FOR SEX!!!.....DUH DUMMY
i think maybe she either 1) cheated on you and felt horrible about it so broke up with you to save herself the guilt 2) realized that shes tired of this relationship and didnt know how else to explain it
the sex might have been bad.


she might have lost interest.


the relationship might have gotten boring.





the best thing you can do is straight out ask her.
honestly some girls just hit guys up for sex. then after a while they move on to the next guy. its the cycle of the sluts. its nothing you did. don't worry about it, just find a new girl. u deserve a great 1
She could be wanting to see around with other men or just use you in my opinion. She needs to make up her mind on what she wants. Im sorry of the breakup, but if she is going to leave but you should just forget her
hmmm, well i think it probably had to do with another guy,


i mean if she wasnt answering her phone... at all. she was probably with another guy.


and she prob just wanted to be a **** and stuff,


you never know
sounds like shes with someone else, sorry. stop having sex with her. its not helping you to get her back shes using you. and any girl who would do that doesnt deserve a boyfriend of any kind
Maybe shes on her period.


Or you got her pregnant.


Or shes scared.


Who knows.


You will most likely Find someone better.
Either she is bored with you or she is seeing another guy.
DID YOU FORGET HER BIRTHDAY, VALINTINES, CHRISTMAS , EXETERA!!!!???! THATS WHY WE BREAK UP WITH YOU! BECAUSE YOU MEN ALWAYS FORGET CRAP. then you never buy us presents :( *sniffle*
She could be tired and bored. She still wants your sex and presence. But she wants a bigger verity of guys.
either: got bored, needs some time alone, met another guy, or just wasn't happy with the relationship
She was probably cheating on you.
She probably only wanted you to have sex.
Idk.... what a b*tch. Like chicks are awesome, but when people pull that sh*t its lame.


Some people just feel differently. Why are u still having sex? its like feeding a fire.
Maybe she found something out that she didn't like.
Fight very much??
maybe the sex wasn't good?
get her to tell her why
it wasnt YOU it is her....shes a horny ****....thats her prob!
maybe sex did it... um did she find some1 new.... and did anything happen inbetween then and now... for her to dump u
the only thing i can think of is she is scared


scared of being this in love with someone


scared of committing more than what she already has


just scared


and thats a very stupid reason, if it is the reason


im not sure, it seems she has a problem going on with her


i suggest you stop sleeping with her if you two ';arent together';


then its like your her sex toy, which is something you dont want to be if you want a relationship


try avoiding her, maybe she will realize how much she wants and loves you and come back


but stop sleeping with her, and dont talk to her for a bit


see where that goes


best wishes %26lt;33

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