Girl.. Need ur advice n ur thinking?

I been with this girl i love her so much.. But she break up with me cause she was not ready yet and need to concentrade on study.. After a whlile i start contact her back.. we been chatting all the time.. we started go out once a while and sumtime hav a lunch together.. i told her i will treat her nice like my little sister.. but actually i still love her, i just wan to make an excuse stay in her side.. after some time.. i express my feeling to her.. and she told me there is long way to go.. neva know 1 day she met some1 better than me.. but she say so far now i am d nicest guy she ever met.. i feel so unsecure.. i so scare to lose her in d future.. so now, if u were her.. will she accept me back when she is ready and finished her study, will she really hoping to get some1 better??


Ur comment i will truly appreciate, sry for my bad english..Girl.. Need ur advice n ur thinking?
I say just keep being by her side and supporting her as much as you can. You seem like a very nice guy, but she may not be with you because she has other things she needs to focus on and may not feel she can bring everything she can into a relationship. If you really feel that strongly about it, tell her how you feel, but don't pressure her into being in a relationship. Tell her that you will always be there for her regardless of what happens. She will appreciate you for that, trust me. Don't feel insecure, especially if she sees you as one of the nicest guys she has ever met. Nice guys are hard to find and I am sure you will find someone if it doesn't work out between the 2 of you.





Just give her some time to focus on her studies. After it becomes less overwhelming for her, try asking her out on a date. Hope this helps you out and don't stress out too much about it. Good luck!Girl.. Need ur advice n ur thinking?
Who knows...maybe you will find someone else you love very much, other than her. If she still talks to you and confidences in you, than after she gets all her stuff in line with her life she might come back to you....you'll just have to wait and see. People change though out their lives, and nobody knows what is going to happen in the future.
How old are you? You need to be like her and concentrate on your studies and not these girls. Love is a wonderful thing don't get me wrong, but you might be to young to understand that if you love her as you say you do you will let her do what she wants to do and that is to finish school and think about a relationship after wards. God Bless!
seems like she really does like you, but doesnt want to hurt your feelings by breaking up with you. i think its best if you both go your seperate ways. she's just trying to be nice and let you down easy. you need to respect her decision and move on also. sorry. :(


if you really are that nice of a guy, you'll find somone soon.
be her friend, that is the most important thing in ANY relationship...


I am best friends with my Husband, building a close meaningful trusting relationship is gonna help you in the long run. Dont rush things or pressure her, it will make her uneasy.. Be her friend, be patient and go from there..


Good Luck
If she loved you and wanted to be with you, she would NEVER say that she may meet someone better than you. That's the lowest of the low. I think she's gone, and you're better off without her.
If she wants you back, shel take you back...all you can do is wait, and be there by her side =D
wat did u tell her...?dat u treat her as a little sis???????????? u saying dat u love her n lying to her...good enough...if i was her den surely i refuse u cos the guy who told me dat he treat me as sis, how can he be ma bf??????????????
well if i were you id get a little open look for more options so that ur not left alone if she says no but if she says yeh then grats
well I think that if she really cares about you then she will probably be with you after she is done with her studies. But just give her some time and don't rush her.
shes gone forever, start looking elsewhere!
Well i think she might not like you like that...


but she might want to get back together with you but im really not sure..
no she might just want some space till her studies are done.
ok, you need a good kick in the @ss.





I know you love this girl, and I know you feel she is the one for you, whatever. The fact of the matter is, SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU SEXUALLY. She may think you're a ';nice guy'; and she ';really likes you a lot'; but she does not like you LIKE THAT. No, she doesn't. She is not attracted to you, and she never will be if you continue to go on like this.





This is gonna be very hard and painful for you to do, but it is necessary for you to move on. You have to pull back....way back. You being around her is only gonna make it worse for you. You are putting yourself through the emotional torture of being in the friend zone. You hope that by sticking around, she will one day magically fall for you. Listen buddy, it's not gonna happen. It doesn't work that way.





You cut off contact for awhile. Don't call her, don't email, don't text, etc. If she contacts you, keep in brief. Be busy. Focus on other people/activities. Meet new women. Pretty soon, she will be the one trying to get your attention. At this time, YOU control the situation. If she will EVER love you, this is the only way you can go about it. But YOU HAVE TO GET AWAY FROM HER AND LIVE YOUR LIFE IF YOU EVER WANT TO GET OVER HER!!!!!!!!!





Secondly, you have to change your whole attitude and outlook about the situation. She can't find somebody better because there IS NOT anybody better. Perhaps she doesn't realize how amazingly awesome you are; that's her fault, not yours. It is her loss. Perhaps one day she will realize, but that's not your problem. Get out there, meet other women, it's the only way :)





If you want, I have some links I can direct you to for further info. Just message me. Good luck man.
if you are back up she sees's you as a last resort if she cant find anything better ...but she feels she can find something better .... sooo you will be waitting till she is ready and it might not come and that is not fair .. think yuo need to move on and if one day it seems that nothing workedand she looks for you then mabe but really ..im being seriouse she might call in between relatioships as for comfort not for love but because your the guy she feels ok being with for a fling cause you like her ... no better sex then some one that cares about you but it doesnt mean that it will be anything ... honestly i think its over and that you dont want to be her second pick its not fair to you .....i hope these words help some one thats seen that happen before
Dude have confidence in your self you need to become almost cocky and not care about losing her. You may lose her any way but if your like this now she is gone. You need to be the master of your own destiny. You have to become what you believe is all that. If she doesn't respond who cares get someone else. You may always feel something for her but each relationship is different and had its own things to offer. If you have that confidence and move on but be frineds for now she will respond for sure. Remember not everything is meant to be.
Perhaps she is sincere about her studies, which if she is, she shouldn't be begrudged for. I don't believe that you will know for sure if she will take you back after her studies until that time arrives. You have now told her that you ';would treat her like your sister,'; well, she may think you will be happy with the ';brother-sister'; relationship from here on. I do believe you should be very careful as to not smother her with your prescense, be it in person or by chatting, texting or whatever. If she should be just a little bit tired of you, this could chase her completely off. Give her some space, keeping your eyes and ears opened at all times. If it is meant to be, it will be and of course if it isn't, it won't be.
you're a great guy, but i was once in your situation too (or still am). sometimes, they do find someone else they really like and you will jsut end up being her friend. maybe she will like you one day. it will take lots of time, but STICK BY HER NO MATTER WHAT. even if another guy comes into her life, just act like its ok and be A FRIEND to her. LISTEN to her GUY PROBLEMS. she will know that you are there for her no matter what.


When you love someone, you want them to be happy, even if you aren't part of their happiness.