GIRL PROBLEMS....HELP...ADVICE NEEDED?

my gf about 3 days ago went to some house birthday party really small onli about 15 poeple but anyway at night she called and sed people saw her kissing someone she was really in distress and she told me she didnt do that its was just close talkin because it was loud and dark i was mad but ended up beliving her...but later on she got really mad and told me she neeeded a break..i sed for what and she told me that she needed some time to thnk about me and her and sayin she wants to be free for some time with no strings attached because she wants to do what she wants. she sed with me shes all like carful about everything, she told me she loves me and this is only for a while she need to find out why she feels like this..i said okie and figured she just needed to be alone...but thinking later on i just think she has gotten bored of me its been 2 yrs already that we have been together and maybe the ';tingles'; are gone and she just wants to have fun and get her youth back in a sense becuase she is only 18 and im 19 and we go to different colleges...the reason the break is hard is because we work together so its really hard to try and not remember her and also she is like all nice to me and acts like nothing happened like we are best friends and today she kissed me at work ..my question is what should i do should i not her call back whne she does..not answer her texts? be distance? im really confused and depressed and need some advice on what to do because my mind is justt telling me **** everyhting she doesnt love you anymore and just wants to be 18 and have fun..HELP i would really like some advice from the ladies pleaase.GIRL PROBLEMS....HELP...ADVICE NEEDED?
Well give her what she wants...a break...but dat doesn't mean dat yall can't be friends...of course she still loves you look how long yall been together...but you're rite...she needs sometime to herself becuz she is young...she just wants to have fun rite now without feeling likes she's being tied down...i dn't think its over tho...she just needs some space...in the mean time give her dat but don't stop being her friend...i think its better to have you in her life than out of it....GIRL PROBLEMS....HELP...ADVICE NEEDED?
Ummm idk the only person who knows the right thing is her you need to squeeze the truth out and if u care enough investigate and find out all you can to determine wether she did it or not. and yeahhh basically just get inside her head and see what she wants. because your asking what she thinks ur like basically asking us to read her mind from what you told us... Just INVESTIGATE thats all i got
oomgg i think that she is confused..maybe she caught feelings for the guy at the party..your right, shes young and isnt ready to settle down obviously..she needs a break because she is probably feeling smuthered. you sound really nice and its great that your in college. if she doesnt come thru you can start fesh, =)








good luck
she could be confused or just wants you there for her security so she knows she has you to fall back on wen she is in desperate need of someone to see or have that ';comfort'; lol


id say leave her high and dry


no strings attach





dont talk


leave and if she truly lovesyou she will beg you back haha


no reallytho





she playing you
first of all, work on your punctuation.


if you don't know what that word means.


then just try and use these more often ( . , ? ! '; )


etc.





and to answer your question.


if she did, nbd. it happens.


but you have no realll proof.
It sounds like there may be another guy not saying she cheated but he could have her confused about everything she could love you alot but this guy could have brought out some feeling and she probably doesn't wanna hurt you and still cares alot but just is confused
This sounds like she has someone else, and is using u as a fall back on boy. Screw it and tell her that you guys are over for good, because if she is putting you in second place, you deserve better.
If you really like this girl then you should believe her and let it go. If she feels the same way about you she will come back. In the mean time dont just sit at ur computer and feel sorry for yourself. get out meet people, have fun.
As depressing as it may be she has been seeing someone else. Drop her and move on with your life. She will lose whoever she is seeing and she will come running back to you when it happens.
sometimes you have to let something go to get it back. Just let her do her thing, or she will be miserable.
be smart.


you know what she is doing


you know why shes doing


so do what yu think is right for you
make her feel guilty, you can pull away and not talk to her.


or you can get over it and act like its not a big deal, and support her, and see what she is really thinking.





another good way to go is to make her jealous (you know, the classic get with another girl)





other than that youll have to go on your own, you should not think about it, and try to do things fun for you.
This is why I think young people should play the field. Don't have sex and don't go steady. Go with as many as you can and you will find the one you blend with best. Now find another girl friend and tell her you play the field so you will be dating others also. Don't have sex. If you can't enjoy just being with her and have laughs and good times then you are with the wrong one. Then call the first girl now and then or send her birthday cards and cute friendship cards. Let her go, if it is love it will come back.
I think your instincts are right. It seems she doesn't really know what she wants, and that she's only coming back to you because she didn't find what she wanted before. You've been very patient with her but she's causing you pain, and frankly she doesn't seem worth it. And for her to say that she feels that she has to be careful around you, it seems like it means she has to watch what she says because she might get caught in a lie. I think you deserve much better :)
It sounds as if your girlfriend is trying to explore other options while still keeping you close. She may still love you however she may be doubting the relationship because of the age. Yes 18 and 19 is very young. I have no doubt that you love her, and this may be difficult to do, but you may want to start to see other women .. and make it known to her ... this was she will see that her exploring also gives you the right to explore and it may help you both realixze if the relationshi is something to continue or not.
It sounds like you are talking it pretty hard. The best way to get to a girl and make her want you 10x more is to igrnore her. Start talking to some other girl and let her see it, this will make her jealous and want you. I know Im a girl and have alot of guy friends. When they wanted to make theyre girlfriends jealous, wanting them theyd call on me. Id act like I was interested in them, try to hang out with them etc. Before u knew it it worked, theyre girlfriends wanted them even more. I hope everything works out for you %26amp; Good Luck!! PS: Try to ignore her, dont call her back or text her back.
Well, this is how women work.......when we know we can have someone then we do whatever we want because the choice is ours....lol....dont give her the choice to be with you.....move on, and i almost promise that the day she realizes you are no longer at her disposal, she will start jumping back on your nuts......go out and have girlfriends, have goodtimes, and dont sap over her tooo much longer....thats how you turn the tables....goodluck.