Saturday, July 31, 2010

Girl troubles... any advice?

ok so there this girl i met ive known her a few months but we started to hang out recently. she seems like everything i want in a girl but she flirts alot and sends the wrong signals. we talked yesterday and in the end it came down to me understanding that she only likes me as a friend. but i cant stop thinking about her and i dont know what to do im afraid that ill loose my chance i think i might have already. what should i do? im 16 shes 15 for the record. please dont be all like wow your to young to have these feelings.








i just dont wanna loose her when in a guys life does he meet a girl that he sees as perfect for him.





havent told her how i feel .. dont wanna push her away but generally we hugged once the first time i was over at her house i think like 2 weeks ago i met her dad. when we hugged it felt incredible like nothing else mattered you know?





im gonna give her a bit of space see what happens but im afraid ill loose her at the same time.. im worried about that ALOTGirl troubles... any advice?
Don't push yourself on her. Just give her a little space, and see what happens. Here's one of my personal experiences:


This boy, he said he was in love with me. I liked him a bit, but not enough to date him. I didn't think he was right for me. He said he moved on, and even started dating other people. I got very jealous, and it just made me want him all the more.





Another experience, I said I just wanted to be friends. And then they stopped flirting with me. I know it sounds selfish, but it's weird. When they stop flirting with you, sometimes it feels like your whole relationship changes. If you flirt with her now, and she likes it, then you should stop. If she starts to miss the old flirting that you two shared, then the combination of that, and the space thing, will just make her want you all the more.Girl troubles... any advice?
If she says be friends,


just wait.


She may change her mind, she may not.


Don't bring it up to much.. it may cause stress/pressure.
A lot of girls will tend to peel away from guys they think they can easily get but go INSANE when the guy moves on. Give her space. Stop calling/texting her. Stop going out of your way to see her.





She'll come around eventually.
Bummer she just likes you as a friend, too bad dude. I would ignore her and she if she responds if she don't she don't.
be friends with her a little longer, then charm her, then she maybe will fall for u, then u ask her out, all it takes it time
That's a hard situation to be in, seems the one you love always loves someone else. I think I would just remain friends with her, it's better than not being near her at all, but if it gets to the point you can't stand her with other people then you may need to drift away for a while, at least until you can control your feelings. You never know though, one day she may realize what a great person you are and take a chance on you. Don't give up :)
Well if she has already said she only wants to be your friend, then you might have to leave it at that.


You should continue being yourself and remaining cool about the situation. Maybe she'll come around. Who knows? Maybe she likes you but isn't sure she's ready for anything more.


As far as losing her goes: she's not really yours as it is.


If you start hounding her or letting her in on all of these feelings, you might make things awkward between the two of you.


I know this sounds hard but: Relax! Just let things progress, okay? :-)


Good luck!
Aww. I wish she felt the same way. :l





I guess all you can do is just tell her how you feel.


You need to put it out there.
well i think as a fellow guy dont push her away too much or you will loose her. but just tell her how you feel. if she still dont like you like that then just be frineds till she does. but you can always try just going out on a limb and kissing her. that only works if she's into it. dont tell what you'll do. and there's always the jelous step. if she really cares about you she wont let somelse hurt you. so if that still dont work tell me more bout it and i might be able to get more deep into it so i can help
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