Thursday, July 29, 2010

Girl/Guys Need advice please?

There was this girl i saw at school, i found her really pretty so i added her on facebook, i told her she had amazing eyes (she really did :O) and we talked for a while its been about a month now, but we don't really hang out in person, i started to like her, but one day when i asked her what was new she said she had a boyfriend so.. but then about a week later, she said she broke up with him because it didn't feel right. We have alot in common, and we say the same things quite often.. if that makes sense(it does in my mind :O ) .. but anyways i asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime and she said that next week was great. She asked me when, and i just said anytime next week when she has time, i'm planning on asking her what day or something. Anyways! TO THE POINT! does anyone know how i could drop some hints that maybe i like her (very light hints) or maybe get her to like me more? ANYTHING WOULD BE GREAT, PLEASE :) THANK YOUUU, happy halloween a little late :)Girl/Guys Need advice please?
Tell her (in person) have i told you u have amazing eyes already cuz u do. She'll blush i know thats random but chicks dig random trust me! Flirt with her like come from behind and put your hands on her shoulders like ur massaging them and smile when she turns around and say whats up :). Or you can play sumthin off like one day go up to her and say u forgot her name and say i dont wanna be a dick an all but i cant rem. ur name so if u can give me ur number itll help (she'll definately give u her number if u dnt have it already and laugh in a good way). So i cant give u all the flirting tips or else ull end up like me lol :) but these are good ones so GOOD LUCK and DONT BE SHYGirl/Guys Need advice please?
flirt with her a ton dude! let her know that your interested in her!


then hang out and show her that you really like her.








help me too man!


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Definitely drop hints on your 'date.' Girls don't want to have to decipher if a guy likes them or not, just like you don't want to. Where are you planning on hanging out? That would help with ways to drop hints. Don't tell her you like her though. Us girls usually aren't so stupid, she'll get it from the hints.


Definitely start off by complimenting something, like her purse or shoes. And after that don't say anything more. The simple compliment will make her happy from the start, but she won't feel bombarded by compliments. Maybe later brush some hair from her face if it gets in her way and if she looks confused or surprised simply tell her, ';For a second I couldn't see your gorgeous eyes.';





Just be simple and cute on the first date. If she liked it she'll probably say that you guys should hang out again. =]
I agree with the first answerer; telling her this too soon can make you look desperate - girls do this to each other all the time and it works for guys as well





btw, dropping hints? what are you? 12?





if she shows some signs that she likes you, then you show some indirect signs back to suggest the same. This goes back and forth a few times, then you get to ask more about her and get to know more about her.





signs you show would be:


asking questions about what she did recently


mildly teasing her a little


asking what flavour ice cream she likes if you're offering


etc.





when you do start to get to know her, try to develop some sort of emotional connection e.g. ask her about times when she was happy or why she particularly enjoys certain things. Likewise you can explain things in a similar detail but in a more masculine manner and showing that you have certain traits like sense of humour, being a leader, showing integrity, etc.





Always leave the 'date' on a high note.





Hope this helps
Don't tell her that yet. That's too much, too soon. You would scare her way if you told her you liked her the first time you all ever hung out in person. Just hang out with her for a while and get to know her better and let her get to know you. You can't make someone like you more. Just be yourself and take it SLOW.
get to know her more first and maybe after a while ask her on a date then so on...

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