Girl Problems..Any Advice needed!?

I'm 18 and I'm in my second week of college, well i met this girl onetime with some other people and we all just ended up watching a movie. I talked to her for a bit around 7-10 min and after that walked her back to her room helped carry a bunch of her stuff back. Well the thing is I really want to get to know her more, but the problem is I really don't see her at all during the day even though she live on the same floor in my dorm, we just have really different schedules, but I have chatted with her on Facebook and MSN a bit also, idk what to do really, I just want to simply hang out with her more before i really want to take her out on a date or something eventually, also another problem is that i always tend to start the convo on MSN or Facebook, so the fact that she never messages me first means she's not that interested? Yea I'm really just lost on what to do in the scenario.Girl Problems..Any Advice needed!?
Ok so you said that you met her with some other people, so what would make the most sense if you didn't really want to go on a ';date'; yet, then just ask a bunch of friends if they want to go somewhere (preferably some of the same people as when you first met) and invite her to go too. This way it isn't really a date, just some friends hanging out, and this way you two will have more to talk about on MSN and Facebook. Anyways, this is just what I would do.Girl Problems..Any Advice needed!?
i think you should ask her to hang out and do something casual when you both have time. it seems like everything you guys will do will have to be planned around both of your schedules. she may not have noticed that you're interested in her, which could be why she doesn't start the conversations. but i'll admit that once you find out someone is interested in you, your interest is automatically sparked more. give it a shot. =)
Move on. There are much more interesting, considerate young women out there for you. Don't get stuck always being the one to initiate a conversation....this puts you in the position of inequality.





Never let a woman (anyone) play mind games on you. Never deal with those who don't consider you equal to them and therefore inconsiderate of your interests.
I'd start by finding out what she does when shes not in class for leisure. And invite her to do that with you, movies, park, mall whatever. her not messaging you first isnt a bad thing at all. She could be in the same predicament, she just doesnt know what to say and by you bringing up a subject you help make a bond.


If that doesnt help then just keep your head up and you'll find someone else. Sounds messed up, but it happens.
Just because she doesn't message you first doesnt mean she doesnt like you. Stay and be persistent, girls do that, they wait for the man to make the move.. most of the time, it's like a test, so just keep doing what you're doing.
She may not initiate discussion because she has so much other stuff going on. Or maybe she is shy.


If you really want to hang out with her find a night where you are both free and hang out.
Try to get to know her through your friends or her friends or something. Then when the time is right be like ';I know we just met but I was wondering if you wanna hang out sometime?';