me and my girl of 2 yrs recently got in a fight and she wants to be single now. the other day she video chatted me. ( we go to diff schools) and said how cute i was and how much she missed and that she loved me. but today she was completly rude to me and barely talked to me. and now shes saying that she doesnt want to talk at all and all this random stuff. i mean i dont get her. why would she tell me she loves me and now doesnt want to talk at all. she said she wants to be single but if we didnt get in that fight then she would of never wanted this. shes always been a really good girlfriend and shes never said anything liek this before so its very random for me
Girl trouble. need advice..?
well mick, i think you should do what you think is right for you, if you think you guys should take a break then maybie that whats you should do, who knows maybe you ll find someone else who treats you right and respects you :) i hope i helped you and i hope things work out for you :) good luck!!Girl trouble. need advice..?
i think you should end it but... read on, k?
she might still love you, but obviously its not the same anymore. i think the reason why she still keeps seeking your attention is because she's too scared to let go of your established relationship because you have been together for such a long period of time. she's simply scared to lose that.. having someone there for her constantly. basically, she's scared of the lack of companionship.. and she might also be scared that she's making a big mistake with breaking up with you..
both of you need to decide for yourselves if you still love each other and are still willing to grow with one another. if you cant put the effort to do that anymore, then i dont think its worth giving it another chance. sorry, this must be horrible.
Ok first of all, don't crawl. Act like a man. Just email her or something and ask her if that's what she really wants. Tell her that you do love her but you're not going to force her to stay in a relationship that she doesn't want to be in.
Also think about yourself. When you see your future do you see her in it? Do you see yourself marrying her? Having children with her? Or are you just in this relationship because you ';love'; her. Or you have ';history';.
I know you probably like her in all but just tell her to make up her mind because if she wants to be single then good you can find someone better and let her know that you don't want someone playing games cause then you get all up and twisted and wont know what is true or a game.
In my country we say ';she's playing hard to get';.
She wants to know that you'll come after her, beg if it matters, and to really prove your love of her.
If she's worth all that effort, and you love her (which you do) go for her, her way - and win her back.
Good luck
Tell her what's her problem and what did you do to her?
and if you can recall the start of it talk it over if she says she don't want to talk to you just keep on talking force her...
but on the good way...
Good luck!
Ouch! well sorry to say but it sounds like to me that she might of found someone new. It might sound cliche, but long distance relationships don't work out. But the best thing to do is waite and talk to her when she is a lil more rational. Good luck!!
Just tell her you want to talk to her alone and get her alone and talk about what you think is the problem and tel er you want to stay with her but she needs to be more assured with her personality!
She's not worth it. Dump her.
Maybe she was a girlfriend until she started all of this crazy stuff, but you can find a girl out there who will be a good girlfriend ALL the time.
With you being at different schools she may be interested in someone else or just growing apart from you. Dont call her, see if she changes her mind and realizes she made a mistake. If its meant to be it its meant to be
she could just be having a bad day. she can also be getting irritated with you because sometimes, us girls just need our space. but if she truly cares about you, she'll get over it soon enough. trust me
Kind of sounds like she might have already moved on. Or maybe she's just bored. Who knows. Just talk to her and ask her what she wants.
Look girls are really confusing, a reason for her actions [acting like a jerk] could be becuase she wants to act like the tough one after the breakup in public. Next time your online, ask her why she acts like this.
Goodluck(:
She sounds bored to me.
Make the relationship more interesting.
sounds like she meeting other guys and she's doing the comparison thing, you vs them.... give her some time, don't constantly hound her and she what happens.....
she is having decision issues
back off basically stay away sounds as ifd she doesn't know what she wants. i advise to move on and find someone stable.
PMS, comes to my mind
maybe you havnt told her something you havnt said to her in a while?
dump her *** she crazy
I'm no expert in this field just thinking how I'd feel if I were in your shoes.
Anyone who has mood changes so drastically I don't think I could live with anyone who fits her description. It's hard enough to live a normal everyday life without such problems.
You either love someone and want to be with them or you don't. I don't think there is anything in the middle.
It's hard to function when you are with someone who changes like the weather. You deserve more than that.
Some girls are spoiled by getting whatever they want all the time, they are very demanding and want everything their way.
Examine your relationship with her and ask yourself do you want her with you permanently or do you want someone who is more to your liking and who treats you with respect. I'm not on your side or hers just trying to suggest things to get your mind thinking what is going on between you both. Sometimes you can't see what is going on when you are having the problem yourself. You are young once and you should be free to enjoy yourself and maybe later settle down with someone who has the same feelings as you. Best of luck in your decision to break up or make up. It's your call.
Mama Jazzy Geri
Well girlfriend got some issues, you need to tell her do she love you, or hate you, think you need to move on, it seems she can't make her mind up. You don't that in your life. Everyone deserves to be happy and she is playing with your heart and that's not cool.You need to ask where is she going and if she doesn't know then you need to move on. It's other girls out here that will treat like you need to be treated. Sometimes couples get into an argument because either you or your other is doing something sneaky. If you love her then you need to find out what the hell is going on, take care of business, because it seems like you are a good girl and you love her, so find out now.
sounds like there is something she is not telling you, as in there is another guy in the picture who is confusing her feelings. I would bet on that.
do this, call her bluff and agree that it makes sense for you guys to be single. tell her you're always there for her and that you think she makes a good point in that you guys should be free to see other people.
THEN HOLD THAT POKER FACE. do not call. do not text. be less available. when she texts you, wait at least a day or two to respond.
it will drive her nuts and make her want you SOOOO MUCH. trust me, if she thinks you are always there as a plan B that's what you'll be.
the irony is you may actually meet a better girl in the process.
keep your head up, don't be a pushover and if she wants to go, let her go! you should be with someone who actually wants to be with you. she is sending coded messages like all girls do that she met another guy and wants to see what's there with him and keep you on the bench in case that doesn't work out. don't be a sucker and let her play you like that.
don't get emotional. be positive and nice to her at all times, but also see it for what it is. good luck.
