PLEASE LADIES, THIS GIRL NEED YOUR ADVICE!!! ALL THE LADIES, ALL THE LADIES...PLEASE CONSIDER THIS.......?

LADIES, I NEED YOUR HELP PLEASE!! I AM IN MY MID THIRTIES, WOULD YOU CONSIDER DATING A MAN THAT IS IN HIS....?


early 40's? He is very attractive, tall and handsome with a wonderful smile. He has good religious morals, he is funny and seems very caring and sincere. He is very athletic, plays basketball and works out all the time. Oh, and he is soo intelligent and charming. But, here is the thing, I think that he still has some unhealed scars from his previous 1st time marriage. His ex wife really did a number on him, by cheating on him and running off with this guy. Since he is very religious, a practicing Christian, i think that it really hit him hard in his heart. ;-( he is really kind-hearted, but sometimes it seems like he blames himself for the failure of his previous marriage, for the mistakes that he made. (he never cheated) Do u think that I should pursue him? We really enjoy each other's company, nothing sexual, just really like talking to each other when we see each other. He is soo easy to talk to and makes me laugh all the time. What should I do, I just don't want to be a thorn in his side if he still has open wounds from how his marriage ended? He is too cool for me to push him into something that he is not ready for. So, what do u think Ladies?





sorry for the long winded question, just wanted to make sure that u knew the whole story.....thank uPLEASE LADIES, THIS GIRL NEED YOUR ADVICE!!! ALL THE LADIES, ALL THE LADIES...PLEASE CONSIDER THIS.......?
I think you should go for it, he sounds like a really great guy and the 10 year difference doesn't really matter.


As for the scars, maybe you can help them heal. Show him how to love again and remind him that you wont hurt him and will never cheat like his ex. also tell him what a great guy he is and that it wasn't his fault, that the other girl just didn't know how great she had it and that you feel like you would be the luckiest person in the world if you got a chance to be more than just friends.


Don't give up because all hearts are meant to heal, it just takes a little time and the right person.


Hope this helps and good luck!!!PLEASE LADIES, THIS GIRL NEED YOUR ADVICE!!! ALL THE LADIES, ALL THE LADIES...PLEASE CONSIDER THIS.......?
If you like him, the first step is to be there as a friend for him. Don't scare him off, but let him know you are there as a shoulder of support should he ever need it. He will respect you for your kindness and heart. then let nature take its course.
Well I think you can help him with the hurt by getting to know him and being good to him and just see where it takes you two.
I already answered this.
well, sound like your in the ';hes my prince charming stage'; look past the besuty and smartness you seem a bit niave, no offense, but dont be too impressed by al of this. he sound perfect, but no one is.





look deeper into this, maybe he did somethign u dont know about, dont be certain he wasnt at fault at all.





i recomend friends for a bit longer, after mybe another month make a move, find out what he wants. dont be a thorn, excavate the thorn. Take his problems away by being there ot listen. and if after a month its not changing, tell him how u feel