Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Girl with a boyfriend (advice from a girl please)?

I jus got my date for prom. Shes a friend of mine and definetly finds me attractive. The problem is that she has a boyfriend of 4 years. Shes not going with her boyfriend for one reason or another and doesnt really like showing him off or mentioning she has a bf. I dont kno wut to do in this situation, because I really like her, and she likes me but nothing can come from this because she has a bf. Prom Night is supposed to be the best night of my life and I find it weird going with a girl with a bf. Am i sounding crazy here? What can I do to try and steal her away from her bf?Girl with a boyfriend (advice from a girl please)?
Okay man, listen up. I am going through the exact same situation. There is this girl with a boyfriend and we both like each other a lot. I'm taking her to prom this year as well.





Look for signs man. Does she:


Touch you often?


Hug you often?


Stare into your eyes when she talks to you or you talk to her?


Like being around you?





If so, she likes you a lot. If you try and steal her boyfriend, you have to think about the consequences. See what kind of boyfriend she has. If he's huge, you might not wanna **** around, but if hes not, then you have to do what you have to do.





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Tell her how much you care for her man. If your prom night goes great, you might even get a kiss on the lips at the end. Damn, you may even get laid.





My advice, go for it and see what happens.Girl with a boyfriend (advice from a girl please)?
i know it was directed at girls, but...yeah





no, it's definitely awkward to go with a girl with a steady long standing boyfriend. and if i were you, just try to enjoy your time with her at prom...don't go stealing her from her boyfriend. that's not cool. and if she associates you with the reason of a breakup, you probably won't even end up with her.
Dont worry about going to the prom withher even though she has a bf. Its only like a date.





But as for stealing her away from her bf, you shouldnt get involved with her yet because she has not officially broken up with her bf yet. You dont want her bf to come beat you up when he finds out, you're making a move on her.
If she's your friend just let her be happy if she is happy with her boyfriend. As in.. don't try to 'steal her away'. Prom night is overhyped most certainly not the best night of your life... (well I didn't even go to my prom). So go and find a girl who is single, it's not fair on either her or her boyfriend. Imagine if she was with you and some other guy was trying to 'steal her away'.
In general terms, since she has a boyfriend, she's off limits. However, I don't see any harm in going to the prom with her. Just try to keep your distant, and try to avoid inducing infidelity on her part. Even though you really like her, you don't really want her to cheat on her boyfriend. I would hope that the type of girl you'd like to be with is someone who respects the person she's committed to (that could be you some day). You're quite young still, so you may or may not have had the experience of being cheated on. I hope more people will learn to respect the boundaries of committed relationships and be strong enough to break things off with someone they no longer want to be with rather than cheating on them.





So don't try to steal her from her boyfriend, but get to know her, have fun, and who knows...maybe she'll end up falling for you and ditch the boyfriend anyway. But don't get attached to someone who cheats. It's NEVER a good idea!

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