HELP GUYS!!! A GIRL NEEDS SOME ADVICE....?

I'm all for trying to spice things up in the bedroom, but I need a little input...(no pun intended!)





My lover is a wonderful man who is very passionate and sensual. However he has a very short penis, @ 4 inches and he has a bit of a potbelly. His penis has a nice girth, so that's always a plus.





He is in his 50's and when we make love we ONLY do it with him standing at the edge of the bed. He does not perform oral sex on me, but HE enjoys it done to him. We've talked about it and he has made his position very clear... ORAL SEX IS A NO GO!





(Perhaps it's a generational divide, as I'm in my 30's)





What are some suggestions to help ';diversify'; our intimate life while taking into consideration his anatomical challenges?





And how should I approach the subject without hurting his feelings?





SERIOUS, MATURE ANSWERS ONLY!





Thanks!HELP GUYS!!! A GIRL NEEDS SOME ADVICE....?
It's a shame that he's narrow minded enough to expect and enjoy oral from you and not provide the same thing.





To get around the belly, you could slide your legs over him from the feet end (so you are facing each other) and he will penetrate from the back of your body.


With you on your back and legs over his shoulders could probably give him enough room that your legs support his stomach and he can get in you that way.





However, that being said, as I guy, I would suggest you draw the line at no-give, no-get, then he can determine how valuable the oral side is.HELP GUYS!!! A GIRL NEEDS SOME ADVICE....?
I am sure if he is 50's he understands he has some anatomical challenges, tho this could be difficult to mention to him without upsetting him. Letting him know that you like him the way he is and just want to add a little something may be key.


Maybe try some different positions or try using some toys.


Letting him use toys with you may spice things up.
Ok the size matter try that vibratting ring that's realy the only thing i think would help. Ok onto oral, if u haven't already trying shaving or waxing. I won't to down unless it's clean n bare. Or u could tie him down n sit on his face. If u guys r into that kinda thing. Good luck.
if he won't go down on you, ask him to play with you with his fingers. let him get down there and get a good look at what he is doing, after playing with you and seeing everything i would find it hard to imagine him not wanting to give you an australian kiss. good luck
Ly down on your sides:might work.Bend over perhaps?I run out of ideas in these situations because i cannot picture it.Sorry


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i say you get rid of him and fine someone who will enjoy giving and reciving
well i think that you should be able to sit him down and just be honest with him! tell him your not happy with your sex life, but if that wont work, what about sex toys?





to approach the subject i would get online (i personally like adamandeve.com) and be like- ';look what i found on this site, what do you think honey- looks fun';





i feel really bad for you that the oral is a no-go! not sure how to change his position on that- i get the impression that you wont change his mind! so i wish you the best of luck and i think you should think about the sex toy option oh PS make sure he know that this is a toy to use together not for you to use alone. before you spend the money make sure he is willing to use it on you! you don't want him to feel ';replaced';





best of luck


Hiedi