I ask this question several times but i want more advice and fix the question up.
My Girl Friend is having a baby. My Girl Friend had sex and we are going to have a baby. We are both 14 years old We started going out less then 4 months ago she is 3 months and 14 days pregnant,
Her parents are not going to be happy. They might even kick her out.
I have asked this but i want more advice
What is the best way to tell her Parents?
My Parents wont be happy but they will help any way they can.
what will be the best way to tell my mom and dad?
we both want to keep the baby
She is going to family court and get her parents away from her. They are that mean to her.
My Parents are helping her with that
we talked about asking my parents to adopted our child. But 1st we have to tell the about the baby
We kinda knew each other for years but we never talked. Then one day at school i got really sick and she helped me out. She changed my life. We both made one mistake. we learn from our mistake.
Me and her still like each other alot
This is true. I am getting a little nervous. My Girl Friend is worried that i am going to leave her. Which i will never leave her. 14 year old girl friend Need Advice?
It's probably too late for an abortoin sadly. Should have aborted. Saves your future, your families future, her families future and a lot of wasted time arguing ruining any chance of peace between her and her family.
I don't know what to say since if I had a 14 yr old daughter that wanted to keep a child I'd be really mad as well. Just watching my daughters life wither away. Just gotta live with whatever happens. Bad choices= bad consequences14 year old girl friend Need Advice?
well im sorry that this happened to u guys being so young and all but u guys do need to tell ur parents because pretty soon it will be visible and people will know. just have ur girl friend come over and talk to ur parents about it with her there say ';one night we were very irresponsible and now she is pregneant'; when they ask questions do ur best to answer them. then tell them about maybe letting them adopt the baby. if they think that it is best for u guys to just give the baby fo adoption then thats probably best. hope for the best!
Look, I got pregnant at 19, and telling my parents was the scarier than finding out I was pregnant. The best advice I can give you, is tell them together. At least that is what worked for us. Sit them down and just tell them straight out, she's pregnant, I'm sorry, I was irresponsible.
You sound like a really awesome guy, and I can't tell you how great it is that you are supporting her.
wait? you still LIKE each other a lot? man it should be love! first, you should be in love before you make love. and why do that when you were only dating for a month!?! go up to your parents and tell them.. i screwed up. I slept with my girl and now shes pregnant.. maybe you can persuade them to talk to her parents.
talk to them together still if you can try to go to school college job.
i was the one who was like talk to your parents about maybe adopting the baby until you and the girl are old enough to take full responsibility for it. But you really need to talk to your parents maybe get your uncle and your girlfriend there too soo you dont feal outnumbered or anything maybe it would make you more cofortable but they are going to relize evntually bc as you said she is 3 months and 2 weeks pregnant she'll be showing soon enoguh and they need to here it from you not just figure it out on there own. Good luck and just try your hardest to show you wont leave her just be by her side no mater what and be her shoulder to cry on if she feals bad even though you aren't going to leave her. Good luck with your baby and your parents! Ooh also if you could tell me what hapens id apreciate it i hate not knowing haha
I agree with derekclassof03... you are in hot water and you are not old enough to do much of anything about any part of it. At 18 you would have had a lot more leverage. Under 18 you are totally dependent on the decision-making power of your parents... you are minors and have no legal authority of any sort.
About all you two can do is go to your parents and spill the beans about the pregnancy. Your parents will have to take the helm on all the decision-making since you two are minors. A lot of hard decisions will have to be made.
Her parents are still in charge of her destiny. Do you understand that they can successfully sue your parents for both all the medical bills (prenatal care and delivery) AND child support?
Abortion is NEVER the answer, if you are irresponsible enough to lay in bed together you should be responsible enough to take care of a baby. Seems like you have thought this thorugh and that is a good thing. But no matter how you look at it it will NOT be easy. You need to stay in school, and go to college, just because you have a child does not mean you have to drop out of school. There is help out there in the community as well as friends and family. And remember this is your responsibility, NOT your parents. I am sure they will help out but do you want to throw this on them? Let them help, but you do need to take the responsibility. You are still a child yourself and will get lots of critisim and disrespect from people who have nothing better to do, but stick it through and do your best to raise a happy and healthy child. Best of luck to you guys. And remember if her parents flip which they prob. will let them. Dont force what they are not ready to hear. Once the baby is born it changes a lot and they will come back around with time and patience. So wait things out and tell as soon as possible. remember prenatal care is very important. And you will have to start to prepare for the baby..
Will I can see that you are not owning up to this. you said your G/F had sex and so where was you. Look you both knew it was wrong and that you both were to young to do this and you both knew what could happen. Its like its not all over the U.S. about what happens when you have sex. You are just as much to blame as she. Now that I have said that you are even more indebted to your parents for help. And if I was them I would not let you forget just how bad you messed up. I hope you will remember this and not do this kind of mindless uncontrolled actions again. This is both your faults and now your parents will have to pay as will.
My advice is to tell your parents and beg for forgiveness and hope that they will give it. Then beg for their help. But make a plan to show them how you are going to take over in the future so as not to burden them with it. shame on you both
You both did this to yourselves. Now you are looking for a quick fix. Even if that means killing a little life. You both did this to yourselves. I am sorry that you are having to take the heavy responsibility so soon in your young lives. But you can not blame this on any one but yourselves. THINK LONG AND HARD ON WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO DO NOW. Don't think while you are scared. Clear the head, take responsibility and now is the time to grow up. You are going to become a dad. Congratulations
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